FIX IT Hat

First i want to say an official sorry to every woman/girl that has talked to me about her problems and i didn't listen instead i just proposed a solution

This weekend i've decided to use the 2 and a half hours on the Train to do something fruitful i've been wanting to read a lot of books non technical books for a change there was the 7 habits of the highly effective people , how to make friends and infulence people but mainly from its title the book "Men are from Mars , Women are from Venus" that intrestead me the most

the book is just great read IT

well when a woman talks to you about her problems (as the books imply) she doens't mean that she wants help

it doesn't mean like u martians used to do

when a martian (Man) talks about his problem to someone else it means he needs help

so the other guy puts on the FIXIT hat proudly and helps

but when a venusian (woman ) talks about her problems she just wants someone to listen that's just her way of feeling better !! (if u r a martian as me u'd know what the "!!" r about)

accepting it is inda hard but i'm trying